
Wednesday, May 25, 2005
~ 7:02 PM ~
Are all breakups insensitive? My friends and I are discussing the insensitive nature of breakups, and how most of the time, the person doing the breakup always does it in insensitive ways, including sms text messages, icq messages, deliverance through friends, and similar ways.. and i was just wondering..
Do people act insensitively during breakup time so that the other doesnt get funny feelings or misunderstanding, or do they do it because they can't deal with the fact that they are hurting somebody, or they just do it because they have come to a point where they no longer like/love a person and now just loathe them and want to get rid of them?
I think its extremely sad that what was once the notion of two people who liked/loved each other so much they were prepared to devote their time, their effort, and their commitment to another, could end up breaking up over something as impersonal as an sms text. And it all seems to end there. Most breakups end off with a "sorry we have to break up " proceeded by weeks of deliberately ignoring the hurt person's phone calls, deliberately acting like a prick to the other person, or just plain not acknowledging that the other even exists.
*sigh* relationships and breakups are even harder!
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